I wouldn’t give her the old letter as I fear it would only push her away more. I believe this is in Sandi’s rules where she advises against showing spouse anything from the past (photos, letter, etc) and it could be construed as manipulation.
Right now she’s focused on the shiny new toy, and wants nothing to do old stuff. (You)
Keep your focus on you and you’re kids!
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
