Hello Gordie

It is sad about kid and their fears. I know you are doing a good job reassuring him. All the kids have been through a lot, it is tough on them, good thing they got a great role model near by. Hey that’s you, in case I was too criptic with my hints.

You are wise not to push for answers. Her not speaking about OMs and aborted divorce, I would hazard a guess and say is normal, as much as anything is normal in this situation. She probably is still figuring out what the H3ll she did, and why. Kind of hard to speak about stuff when you are still figuring it out.

Don’t worry she will speak when she feels safe and secure. That has more to do with her than you. It is going to take time for her to feel safe and secure to herself as she is continuing to wakening to her actions.

Besides those answers really don’t matter that much.

Keep being that model of patience.

DnJ


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.