It seems like both Puppy and Allen sort of advocate exposing it in their different quotes in your thread. Is that true or am I not reading thing correctly?
MWD is against exposure. Most people do it wrong and for the wrong reasons. Just do your research. Make sure you understand both sides of the coin before you make a decision.
Otherwise, yes, it will blow up in your face.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712