Hi FS. Wouldn’t it be nice if were the type of women who could use another person to escape from our pain without feeling like it is incredibly wrong?? Can you imagine the relief? The problem is, I can also imagine the mess it would eventually lead to. Re: your H’s OW. I don’t believe her for a second. That’s the kind of thing you tell someone at the start of a relationship [and convince yourself of too] in order to rope them in. As the relationship goes on, she will want more and the pressure will increase. Try not to think of the OW too much. She really means nothing. As soon as she starts to make demands of him, he will run. No doubt.
My H has assured me numerous times and seems very sincere that he is not dating...just trying to figure himself out. If that is the case, I”m glad. If it is not, I wish I knew because I think I would be more motivated to move on at a faster rate. One thing I am sure of though is that there are no more kids in his future. After the twins were born, he volunteered to get a vasectomy and then, later, go figure, blamed me for it (one of his complaints on BD #1). So crazy cause I never even thought about it at the time. But that is how history gets rewritten, I suppose.
Got home from getting my nails done and the kids were home by themselves. Not a huge deal as they are pretty good on their own for an hour or two but it still bugs me that he can’t seem to stick around with them longer than a few hours or wait until I get home before he leaves. But...he is always in a rush to get back to what, I will never really understand.
So glad you had a nice evening to yourself and that you made yourself a meal. I have a hard time making myself anything other than a salad. I stopped by my favourite deli and bought one of their mini meatloafs. Think I will pop that in the oven and have a nice salad and a glass of wine. A nice date with me...lol.
Sweet dreams FS. Hope you have a great day tomorrow. (((HUGS)))
