I don't know much about custody arrangements where you are, but I cannot see how having a non-molestation order and an occupation order would do you any favors. W is trying to build up evidence that you are a bad father.
Speak to a lawyer.
I would not engage in any way right now.
Emotions will be running high and you will most certainly say things that you will regret ... and again, doing so will not do you any favors later.
