I think from his perspective it sounds like a control method. You'll always know when he is "out". And he had to contact you a lot more than he otherwise would. I've never heard of it so I wanted to hear the motivations behind it.
Even if your intentions are pure, and it sounds like they are, from his view they might not seem that way.
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