Thanks DejaVu - Right now I don't even think I am the Plan B.
I think his plan A (get a flat, maintain relationship with children, have freedom to go out with friends whenever I want, date) is going swimmingly. Now that I thrown "look I'm getting on fine" into the mix he doesn't even have to worry about me.
Doubts. Today is a day of doubts. Sleepless night last night. Caught H in a lie. Doesn't matter what it was about. It threw me in a spin. This detaching is easier said then done.
When you start detaching is it normal to feel like you are pushing them further and further away ?
I would love to accept H's offer to spend the afternoon with him and the kids at the pumpkin patch. But I know I really shouldn't.
