It is about YOU choosing how YOU will react to other peoples behavior.
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When you talk to your boyfriend while we are still married, (or in my presence, or our home or bla bla bla... I feel disrespected, or bla bla bla I want you to.....GO SOMEPLACE ELSE (or whatever you want)
If you continue that behavior, I will confront your behavior, share my feelings, and insist that you do that somewhere else. If you keep repeating this behavior I will start considering all of my options, including leaving this relationship.
Just a quick draft as an example.....
I feel like most of those options are exhausted since she filed for D and is trying to fast track it. I dont pursue, there isnt much convo between the 2 of us anymore, and WW considers our M over even though we arent D yet. I guess that helps her sleep better at night?
I will read that boundaries thread again though and see what i can still use. Biggest thing for me is applying tough love right now. I have had a bad case of NGS, and my WW has been bullying her way to this D. Im done getting walked all over.
Last edited by equalzr; 10/27/1812:49 AM.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
