It is about YOU choosing how YOU will react to other peoples behavior.
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When you talk to your boyfriend while we are still married, (or in my presence, or our home or bla bla bla... I feel disrespected, or bla bla bla I want you to.....GO SOMEPLACE ELSE (or whatever you want)
If you continue that behavior, I will confront your behavior, share my feelings, and insist that you do that somewhere else. If you keep repeating this behavior I will start considering all of my options, including leaving this relationship.
Just a quick draft as an example.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712