Thank you for the reminders Job. I am expecting to see a ramp up in the legal stuff based on this. My lawyer seems to be incommunicado. There may already be stuff coming in that I just don't know about. Either that or he is fearful to do it through the courts so is doing this stuff instead.
I've already warned S that I expect him to turn up at school, activity again, house, store, etc. One of the contacts was to the school. He has never, ever contacted the school or shown any interest in S's education, even pre-MLC. It could be that he is trying to solicit their help to see S. Seems like having his lawyer contact mine or him contact me would have been easier, but whatever. I think he thought that by doing that I would absolutely go ballistic. The old me would have. This me politely responded with an update on our situation and asked them to share any information they felt legally obligated to share. I'm just shocked that he did it because he wouldn't even respond to the realtor about listing the house when he was so eager for me to sell it.
The other contact was from a business in my town. I think this is intended to put some fear or have me reach out demanding to know why he is here and what he is doing. I'm doing nothing.
Can't even imagine what is coming next.
Do you think this will continue until he finds a new woman (obviously the current one isn't keeping the blues at bay)?
Do you think there is anything I can do to stop it? Seems like if I respond to any of these I'm rewarding him and teaching him what it takes for the response.
