Black8, you can never go wrong listening to Job, so I agree with her about Christmas.

I am not sure that I will ever come to a point where I am done working on myself, but rather just the knowledge that I still have work to do. I have made huge strides, for example, on defensiveness, and I'm proud of myself for that. But I have recently seem that I am still too much of a fixer, too sure of myself, and that I can easily engulf people who are not as tough. I need to soften my approach and be more flexible in how I approach others. I have some physical and work goals. I want to get out more and meet more people. I want to bring more fun into my life. I know these are all areas where I still need improvement.