Well, I guess the new normal is that he has awakened from his coma (for now) and is intent on getting a reaction, no matter what it takes it. He is now contacting third parties who in turn are contacting me about his contact (so far 2 contacts today). Wondering if the lawyer or the woman have put him up to this, or whether it is part of his process. Likely will never know and just need to move forward and keep my house as stable as possible for the kids and myself. I long for the early days of his romances when limerence and PEA were enough to keep him away.