I had to meet my W for a meeting at one of our kids schools.
It is just weird now. I see her differently. She is pale. Bloodshot eyes. tired. Almost frail. Even weirder (to me) she showed up wearing my jacket. She has close to 100 (or so) coats, jackets, hoodies, etc. Why mine? Just weird to me. And yes, I know it is sad that I notice that and it bothers me. Not detached enough. Definitely.

Good interaction between us at the meeting. We chatted idly and made it through easily. Parted ways and on with my day.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18