Thank you DnJ. They resonate very well. What you say is so true and I thank you for it. OneArt, your situation sounds like a nightmare and at least puts things in perspective for me on the journey ahead. A couple of follow questions: 1. When do you think you will know you are done working on yourself? 2. If my wife said she wants to join us at Christmas, should I let her join us? I feel no, because yes is cake eating. Thoughts?
