Still Lost pt3

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Just updating....so did not discuss all of the previous points last night, just the healthcare issue. WW had a function at work, actually during work...drinking of course but she was home normal time and asked me to run out with her. Of course for a few drinks, but WTH at this point right?

She has been initiating more relationship talk lately and I have gone along and just listened. Said how much she is still hurting from 18 years of marriage (lol really it was all bad, I get it rewriting history). Awesome opportunity, tons of validation and didn't defend one point. Said the last few days I have not been available to talk and she is very stressed out about new job offer and needed me for support, said these are the things that I have done in the past and why she is cheating, angry and frustrated, needs support. Still no response on the OM garbage.

Said doesn't want to give up, loves, sees future together...again nothing but validation from, no way I'm returning L word, because I don't for one. Said reengaging IC because needs help, this will be her 3rd attempt, let's see if she follows through.

Later when we got home she got a call from friend of OM, she went upstairs and was talking loudly about some issues and referring to him as BF, etc etc, sounds like more trouble in paradise. I hear all this and call her out, but heck at this point she knows I know everything.

I'm not sure if I'm going a bit crazy myself, she may be back to cake eating but she is showing more and more emotion and I am returning nothing but validation and continuing GAL. It has been said before but it's almost like I am in an open marriage, no boundary can be made other than she wanted me in MBR last night and I said I'm not sleeping there with A is still going on.

I've asked friends to keep notes because this one can be made into a mini series. A lot of similarities in most sitches but I could give you a lot more details that would blow your mind. Really trying to protect kids at this point first and foremost because this chick is certifiably nuts. Hope she gets help!