Not sure how to proceed or just move on?

[ovrrnbw]

Did your W do the grade school, tell someone to tell you what she wants? Seriously?

I'd talk to the W about it, but really go slow and tell her that her father called you and said a few things, ask her what she told him? And if she says "I want this to be a great marriage" don't just jump up and go crazy and dip her for an intense kiss...(hahaha). You should even be expecting anything positive at all.