Good! I would just not talk to your W if it's causing so much pain. My priest told me this: unless she is wanting to work on the marriage, what is there to talk about? I was in a similar position and talking to my W just drove me crazy. So I stopped talking to her. I felt better.
That's how breakups go. The longer you keep talking, seeing each other, and drawing it out the harder it is to let go.
Set that schedule for your daughter and then you don't need to talk to W.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
