Where things stand: W is going to S and move into her new house she is purchasing 1 week from this posting date. Due to delays in the court system the D will be finalized sometime in Jan. We are rapping up splitting the finances and will tell the kids tomorrow. It's going to be a tough weekend. Again18 gave me a pretty good 2x4 and the W was chewing me out that evening with similar sentiments. I thought I was doing well, but I may be overconfident, and/or arrogant. W complained that I was looking down on her from on high, being too harsh, telling her what's what and not giving her say. I am going to stand back so she can have say wrt to telling the kids as long she wants it to be neutral. My confidence has been rocked, I am not standing on firm ground like I thought I was. I have a lot of work to do on myself. My IC session didn't go as well as I had hoped, it was a learning experience with not many definite answers, mostly just big challenges for improvement I will need to overcome. The mountain just keeps getting higher and higher. I have been crying a lot again. I prayed to God last night, I said I thought I knew where I was going, but really I'm just lost. I am giving up and I am putting it all in God's hands now.
Last edited by Twofeet; 10/26/1801:16 PM.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
