Yesterday I went out and had a great night with a friend of mine. I actually managed to keep my head clear of what is going on at "home" for a couple of hours - it was only after I arrived home, that I realized that (It made me happy).
She made me a coffee this morning, in a cup that read "Worlds greatest dad". I don't think she did it because she likes me, I think it might be because she feels guilty? Anyway I said thanks, but didn't touch the cup.
She informed me, that she is going to heading out tonight (To see the OM) and she will be home later. I just said "Okay", and smiled, even though my entire insides were turning. I know she and I are no longer a couple, however we are living together, and have kids together. I feel really disrespected by the fact that she so openly goes out and get her needs attended to elsewhere. She will actually spend an entire hour running around the house, putting on perfume, choosing what clothes she looks good in, then walk around the living room, waiting for him to tell her she can now come over.
Do I fold my hand and just leave this mess? I really do not want to, and I think we can salvage things, however not as long as this OM is there (She is basically at his beck and call at this point, and I fear she will be for longer than it takes to sell the house, inform the kids, and shred what we could be forever).
Advice much appreciated as always.
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
