Equalzr 120mph w no seatbelts! Advise! pt IV

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To be fair, I hear about a lot of marriages that end in divorce because the wife is a sahm and the husband loses his attraction for her in part because she is so focused on the house and kids that she loses sight of herself as a person.

As for your question, equalzr, I would not like to be married to someone who chased career success to the point where he was not an active partner in our home life.

And going back to the conversation about chores and who does more, you should definitely take emotional labor into account. That's often not taken into account when couple's divide responsibilities, and it can lead to a lot of resentment.