Update: I asked him to explain the passionate kiss. He said he was nervous about his trip and it was his way showing that he still cared about me and missed me. He wanted that to be my memory should anything happen to him. I responded that’s not the way I viewed it. That I felt manipulated and felt it was selfish of him. That he could have used words to tell me how he felt. To me the kiss felt like he was leaving me hanging and leading me on. His response was that “as usual, I saw the negative in his action rather than the positive.” That if the shoe had been on the other foot, he would have been flattered. In the end he apologized. I really don’t think he can empathize with how it made me feel. Am I over reacting? Is this a man/woman thing? (Also, when I asked if he was still seeing the OW, he said not really but didn’t want to talk about it right now.)
