Keep the Halloween plans and make a decisive move. Her response will tell you all you need to know. Commit now to living with how it goes, regardless of how it goes.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
