You know I guess that's an angle I never really considered here. Maybe WAW isn't even sure what she wants with us...I seem to have it in my head that she has it all sorted already and it's just a matter of her leveling with me. However maybe you guys are right...maybe she has no idea what she wants. In that respect she probably doesn't have a definitive answer to give me even if I do corner her for a definitive answer. If that's the case then yes, I agree she needs to figure that out on her own time without me aroind at all. The trouble with me going dark right now is that we have these plans to spend Halloween together so I'm not sure how to handle that now. Should I just blow her off and not reply to her when she texts about it and just go ahead and make other plans now for that night? Too bad the plan wasn't just the movie. I just wonder if she'll even know why I suddenly stopped talking to her... there really was no prelude to it as I wanted there to be...mainly me telling her unless she decides to R, we need to cut ties. Just doing now seems a bit untimely. I never came right out and told her that I don't want to see her anymore unless she decides to R.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
