EQ & T - yeh, the problems are NGS, lack of communication and boundaries here, not the actual chores. I bet you no woman is getting turned on seeing her slob H mowing the lawn vs the same slob doing dishes. The issue is being a slob. A woman will get turned on whether the man is doing dishes, folding laundry, or whatever 'manly' chore if he's an alpha. Imagine doing the dishes without a shirt on cuz you shredded and loud music blasting in the back? Yehhh! No lady is looking at that and thinking about that man being domesticated. When I was more alpha, my W would often come and hug me from the back clearly signaling it was business time cuz she was turned on as hell. That my friends is what it's about - being decisive, confident, and crushing it in all parts of your life. I am not saying this as some ruh-ruh macho sense. I mean truly owning who you are and radiating that in everything you do. That's where it's at.
