I enabled the entire thing as I sat back, gave her time/distance and worked on myself. I enabled her to get comfortable and move forward on her terms.
Im sorry for the hijack, but I dont really understand this. It sounds very bitter...like you should have done something differently. I dont see why it's a big deal that your XW was "comfortable" before filing. All you have control over is you....if you werent ready to file for divorce, then what difference does it make what she does or how she is doing it?
