Gordie 22 eight months after she dropped the D

[Gordie]

Journaling



So we are at some sort of plateau

A new normal

We talk daily

No more ILYs

Friendly non sexual physical touch

Separate bedrooms

We can be seen in public together

She even invited me to a social function

And introduced me to others as her H

We never speak of OMs and the aborted divorce

Maybe we never will



Kids are better for the most part

Grades are better for all except one

That one is still anxious that things could go south at any moment

I know that feeling so have tried to reassure him



W has gotten involved in some charitable work

This has been a very healthy development

It excites her and is meaningful to her

And it allows her to focus less on self and more on helping others