So a day after meeting with my attorney to put a plan in motion to finalize divorce, WAW attorney subpoenas my former employer for my employment records. It has gone from wackado land to banana land...I guess they are now going to attempt to present me in a negative light and will try and use anything to throw at a wall. I will stay above the fray and let my attorney handle.
It’s very clear WAW was banking on getting full custody of S....and now that is essentially an impossibility. She got shoddy legal advice and now her attorney is trying to save face....while also milking her for as much $$ as she can. W choices and actions now are solidifying herself as pure evil. Any thoughts about R are done with....I let her out of the cage and now she’s flailing. She is someone who had full intentions to take my S away from me. That is how I will view her. Her WW/MLC behavior is coming out on full display now that she’s not getting her way in essentially everything. She has also put S in the middle and continues to use him to serve her wants. Documenting all of it in case D now goes to trial.
While is frustrating that it appears W intends to drag D process out, I realize I’m truly detached. Yes I was a bit surprised to hear news about the subpoena, but after about 10 minutes I had moved on to other thoughts and GAL activities for evening.
I do know that I definitely need to keep my guard up and will be very hesitant to have any communication with W that isn’t traceable. All fact of the matter until everything is done. I’ll continue DB’ing my A$$ off, maintain my humility, gratitude, empathy, and faith.
Ready to get the next chapter started...ready to start seeking the next Mrs. Ez...ready at a chance to grow my family in the next few years.
As in NMMNG....my mantra is no matter what life throws at me, I’ll handle it.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
