Updating:

Big Halloween party this Saturday night at the social club, I have not confirmed that I will attend because I am absolutely exhausted. Business is crazy right now and I just had another candidate fail his background check. Lets just say this is a this is a safety sensative position and you need to pass a drug test.

D19 has been in contact with me every few days, she asked to come how for 24 hours from college, I just could not swing driving her. It then dawned on me that something was up so I called her and asked whats going on and she told me she is feeling homesick and misses everyone and that she wants to come home. I talked it out with her explaining that we are all fine and there really is nothing that exciting going on and that Thanksgiving is not that far away and she will be home for 4 days. She calmed down told me she loves me, I told her I love her too. The next day I deposited some money in her account to help her out and she texted saying thank you. Love this kid, so strong, great athlete, unfortunate that she has to go through this.

S23 has informed me that he is indeed going to resign from the correction position and has enrolled in college for an Economics degree. I sat him down and talked about the pro's and con's. I told him I will fully support his decision as long as we have attainable goals. He agreed, then tells me that he saved up $38,000. I said wow!, good job...he already has an associates degree so getting his Bachelors will not be that hard. I told him to go for it.

Running has slowed a bit bc of work but I will run a 3 miler today.

I am slowly but surely cleaning every room in this house. The upstairs bathroom was just a mess, I am making time each day to tackle one problem at a time. Sorting out each issue has made things much easier for me, instead of getting overwhelmed with the whole house I take it one project at a time.

On the Lawyer front, we sent over our propsal and guess what? No response at all, not even a response that it was received. We then sent a letter/email that we need a resolution about the dog within 7 days. She needs to take him, I cannot take care of the dog with the hours I am working. Again no answer.

I have had NC with W other than the graduation. The problem is that she is now NC with the kids. S21 wants nothing to do with her. So much resentment.

Anyway enough about her, really looking forward to Thanksgivng as D24 will be home for 9 days. She called to let me know I said ok lets have a party and she agreed. All good here!!!


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20