So we actually did not get to talking yesterday as she apparently got sick and had to drive home from work (she spent the remainder of the day on the couch with hot drinks and antibiotics after having seen the doctors). I had my hands full with kids and house, so I didn't initiate any talk.
When the kids were asleep I sat down in the living room for a cup of tea before heading to bed. She asked me a question regarding when the real estate broker would be here, but then she didn't say anymore. Her phone was going off the charts though, so I guess she had her hands full with the OM on there (trying not to care). I was drained so after 30 minutes of her not engaging in communication, I told her, that I was calling it a night, and went to my room and fell asleep.
This morning, she told me she had to go to the doctors again, and she insisted, that I felt her throat because she was sure it was swollen, She also wanted me to feel her forehead because she was sure she had a fever. I was unsure how to react, and therefore I just did what she asked. She sent me two messages this morning on snapchat (I believe they were just group snapchats - nothing personal requested or shared).
She seems very closed off, and I don't really know the abbreviations clearly yet so I don't know if I am dealing with a wayward or walk away wife (maybe someone here can help me?).
Its for certain though, that she is getting her emotional needs (and physical too) covered somewhere else, as we up too 3 months ago were always communicating throughout the day.
I responded to her snapchats with a "It was really a good thing you went to the doctors and got the medicine, since you were feeling so ill -I hope you feel better soon".
Don't know if I shouldn't have?
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
