Shake hands, we shall never be friends . . .

[Ruby100]

Sometimes it’s so difficult to work out if they really do want friendship or they’re just scared to let go of the comfort blanket.

We are just starting mediation & for me it makes sense that we get on as I think he will be fairer than if we fight. He would be a tough adversary if I went up against him.

The loss of friendship has been the toughest part of this for me. Whilst our marriage wasn’t perfect I thought he valued the friendship. Even now he says I’m his soulmate & best friend but we all know that you would never inflict this pain on a friend or walk away from a soulmate.

Are the lies, that he seems to tell with such ease, to protect me or himself? He is not the man that I have believed in for all these years. How can a friendship work without honesty?

OneArt - the game playing on his part with the post etc. is crazy. Your coolness is the best revenge - good on you.