I have seen one where the man finally had enough of the WW's bs, and he actually became a WAH ......and it yanked his WW's senses back into her head. But it was b/c he found his b@lls, not b/c of in-house separation leading to reconciliation.
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There’s a similar story in DR, where the guy says, “Fine, if you want out, get out!” And the W says, oooh, he’s back to being his strong self again. Brett and Stella, pp. 121-124.
I can partially attest to this. May not be the whole reason, but W was completely 'done' until I picked up D papers and gave her a separation agreement. That and a few other things kind of snapped her back into reality. Wasn't like she jumped back into my arms begging for forgiveness, but at least opened her eyes to 'oh damn, [censored]'s getting real'
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
