Ok pain I need to take a step back and ask for clarification on your last post because it raises my hackles and pisses me off.
You are in MC not IC ? Your W is cheating on you.... dude. You f@$%ing MC said OM is a good man? Yeah good men get into R with adulterous married women. REAL f@#$ing good. Guess MC would suggest it's ok for D4 to start calling OM daddy, right? Yeah so wtf is your W bringing D4 around OM and your not even D. What kind of example does that set? I don't know what your state laws are like but the lawyers I talked said that is a hard no. Jealousy about not allowing your D4 to see OM and W. Dude time to drop MC like a sack of sh!t. Go find a pro marriage counselor. WTF is wrong with society, when this behavior is ok?
Unless I am misunderstanding your sitch, and if so I am sorry, but time to get your balls back.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19