We didnt really butt heads over household chores too much. I think cooking was a main point of contention. I ended up cooking more(W initially did all the cooking), because i eventually became a SAHD. I see now how NGS took over and i was too quick to please the W. We may have butted heads over outdoor chores which W never relented and helped on. So that shows a lot right there. I definitely have always been the one changing and pleasing, the beta. Sadly, trying to please truly doesnt/didnt please. Also, i am definitely working on these skills...Leader, Alpha, Decisiveness, not Procrastinating, and most importantly for me Goals and a plan to achieve them.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
