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I would like to comtinue the discussion that ended in part 3. There was some grrat dialogue beginning, and i think not only can it help me going forward, but others here as well. Im looking at growing as a man, father, husband (or for future R) and im doing research to help.

One thing i came across when looking up how to earn respect from your W was an article that said your W can actually lose respect for you if you become too domesticated and end up doing the majority of the inside the home chores. It went on to say that women are attracted to a man who strives for career success, and that helping out in the home should take a backseat to that.

Id love to hear others thoughts on this, especially some of the ladies on the board. I really hope Sandi sees this and chimes in, she has so much insight in this exact area.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof