Joseph9, I'm guessing that a lot of these things play out the way they have to, regardless of what we do.
AS, I was meaning to ask you what happened with you back then, so now I know. You're always saying "there was no chance/opportunity for recon." But you've also said that things sometimes change despite the LBS thinking it's 100% done. So when you say "it's over with, let's settle this legally and move on," I guess that mindset has to come from a place of detachment rather than fear? I'm trying to make sure I'll be able to read things correctly if/when they start to change.
I mean, it's all just a lot of pointless hypothesizing mostly. I'll probably get as many different opinions as there are people. Plus it's past 5 so time to head home.
H: 35 W: 33 M: 11 T: 13
4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")