The one thing that I have come to realize if my W ever wanted to recon is that I will not tolerate indecisiveness and her taking direct action. I second LH and AS in what they have said. You're going to get a lukewarm response from her. The fuzziness and the shades of grey are way beyond what you've said you want, and I am with you on that.
Until she knows what she wants and comes at you direct, this is all a huge waste of your time. You have already told her straight up what you want, and she has not. She needs to work out whatever her hesitation is and that can't be on your time and dime.
After that message, she basically went dark on you. It's your turn now. Just do it and don't look back unless she comes at you straight.
