What's also weird to me is if she is telling the truth and hasn't had $ex in along time and is basically in her prime, why wouldn't she want to have a roll in the hay with you just based on familiarity and size lol? If it's ok to hangout and do stuff I would think it would be ok for casual $ex.
The only thing that makes sense is she doesn't want to give you the wrong impression. In essence, she already knows where she stands on recon.
