I get that IH, but I am in complete agreement with LH, she doesn't know what she wants and you are never going to get a black and white answer out of her, only fuzzy shades of grey. I'm still of the opinion that you don't even give her that opportunity to drag it out even longer, you just go dark NOW. I mean I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't tell you "yes I am interested in a possible recon" and then follows it up with more pecks on the cheek, friendly hugs and such. And then every time you push for more you get "I'm just not ready for that yet, I need more time."
