Hey, neffer... Doing great. Got a weekend trip planned for this coming weekend to Chicago to see my favorite band for 3 nights. A lady friend that I've been hanging out with is going with me. Plan on enjoying every bit of it. I've said it before, and I'll say it again... I cannot stress enough how important GAL is. It pulled me out of my funk a long time ago. I wish more newcomers new the importance of it. It's hard in the beginning because you're so focused on the problem. Once you start focusing on yourself and your happiness, things really come into perspective. Without GAL, the mind has too much time to wallow and worry. I wouldn't be where I am today if I didn't put as much emphasis on GAL as I did. Drop the rope and all expectations, be the best version of you that you can be, and everything will always work out in the end. Sometimes in ways you never even imagined...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
