13 years and two small children

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I think the lying comes easy indeed, as I have caught her on multiple occasions spinning the truth in her favor. Any advice regarding regaining the lost respect, or should I just think of it as gone forever?

I am working on being the best dad possible, and I am eating my way through the many very helpfull articles and threads on the site. Thanks a lot for the input, it is really helpful.