If physical intimacy is initiated by WW what is your position on engaging at that point?
That's a giant "it depends". If you're DB'ing super well, not pursuing, don't appear needy, then you can engage from the perspective of "sure, I'll do this for you, but I can take it or leave it"
If you're otherwise acting like a starving dog and engaging in physical intimacy is the equivalent of her throwing you some table scraps, then I would say abstinence is in your best long term interest.
If she's doing it because she's bored, guilty, temporarily randy, etc. but not really "into you", then its going to scratch a temporary itch for her, but put YOUR head in a tailspin, so its not worth it. It will leave you confused and wanting more, and for her it will be quickly forgotten, and that's not what you want.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
