So for obvious reasons I can't force her to move somewhere else while I stay here but if that issue arises then we will have to look at selling the house and getting separate places. The disappearing act that has been happening is also something that needs to be addressed immediately and falls under #4 about the schedule being posted. I am not 100% even sure what I want to say to her on this one yet and too be honest I am finding myself a bit overwhelmed at the moment and would really appreciate as many suggestions as I could get.