W texted me about paying off debt. I told her about my part in paying off my credit card and W paying off her's. She said it was "our" debt. Here is where it begins to get murky. I told her that we are sharing an account that pays off our debt each month. When she is ready to contribute more to her CC I will adjust my CC payment to make sure our head is still above water. She then said that we will "make choices" once our debt it paid off.