Nope because if she says take it slow then my follow up will be..."Well taking it slow towards R means I'm not accepting little lame peck kisses. You're going to have to SHOW ME from now on. Little useless peck kisses is not moving towards R WAW. If you are serious then I expect to see progression towards a romantic relationship. If you can't accommodate this then I don't believe you."
She's not getting away with wiggling out of the issue. Definitive and solid answers only and definitive and solid ACTIONS to follow. I'm deadly serious here...I'm not settling for anything less from her. And if she does say she wants to take it slow, than she'd better be prepared to seriously kiss me THAT night when I leave or it's a deal breaker. She's going to prove it to me. I intend to be pulling out of her driveway having romantically kissed her or having said good bye.
In other words if there's no romance then we're not working towards R in my head and that's just a friendship...and she will be made to understand that.

Last edited by ItHurts; 10/24/18 05:10 PM.
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14