Yeah neffer. The problem with that convo when she came to my work thay day was it was totally unplanned. The conversation was a rushed one, standing in a busy parking lot at my work freezing. There needs to be a more quiet and appropriate convo. As I said, it's the moment of truth for her. She's going to have to give me a direct answer to this specific question so I can make my decision accordingly..."WAW, do you see us moving towards possible R or are you content just being friends?" Her answer to that question will determine what my course of action will be. If she says she's open to it and taking it slow...then great, I'll keep dating her. If she says she not interested in R and doesn't see it as a possibility then I tell her that we are on different pages and there's no point in spending time together anymore...that we should just go back to the way things were and live our separate lives. I'll wish her well, tell her not to contact me at all unless she wants to R and then I go dark. Then that's it. Either way this limbo is ending.

Last edited by ItHurts; 10/24/18 04:46 PM.
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14