Right Steve! But it almost seems like there are certain personalities or mental issues that make a wayward more susceptible to being able to act in this manner. I know I suffer from NGS but through reading and practice can realize the things I have been doing and can work to improve those behaviors. I think there is 0% chance that I would ever be able to step out and create that much havoc and hurt though to a family and spouse. I just don't think chemically my brain/heart would allow me to do so in the same manner a WS does.
I think its being a narcissist. At the end of the day, their happiness trumps everything else.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
