Well I think a lot of women want a 50/50 split of the traditional 'woman' chores (cleaning, dishes, etc), but don't even entertain the thought of a split of the 'man' chores (cutting grass, shoveling snow, garbage, etc). And I think that's where a lot of the problem comes in. If a man spends 5 hours a week mowing grass, weed whacking, trimming hedges, etc, etc, and a woman spends 5 hours doing dishes, vacuuming, cleaning, etc, that in theory should be a 50/50 split of the chores. But rarely do men get 'credit' for those things, as it's just the 'man's job'
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14