Equalzr's WW. Still accepting advice! Pt 3

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EQ, I am in the same boat with the household duties. My WW used to work at home until 7 years ago and ever since I picked up more of the load because I had the flex time and picked up S from school daily. Her job out of the house and the security of knowing I am there has allowed her to roam freely which could be part of the problem because she by no means has been acting like a mom over the last few years.

I am no longer doing her laundry and basically food shop for myself and S and do not participate in cleaning the third level where her room and Ss room is. I basically do for me and my S but have noticed on days when I have been GAL and have come home late she has cleaned kitchen and said she likes doing it. I am doing my best to leave her the opportunity to do more to see if that will help her reengage but I can def see her loss of respect because of the amount of responsibilities I had taken on.