Equalzr's WW. Still accepting advice! Pt 3

[Twofeet]

It probably depends on the sitch and the person. My W always complained that I didn't do enough or wants 50/50. When I did do enough or more than enough it t was either a) not good enough b) still not enough or c)was unappreciated, unnoticed, and expected. My W LL is also AoS, but LL can be used against you when the spouse sees them as an expectation rather than a gift of love.

I am not sure how you cannot have drive and success and still maintain or help maintain a household. Would it be any different if you were S or M?