I don't regret it. At first and as I wrote it I initially regretted the text exchange, but now I not sure that it was a mistake either. W tends to get caught up in tasks and forcing a pause to reflect or add perspective hasn't seemed to set things back at all. The fact that I didn't react to some of her claims during the R talk, when I realize that she was merely trying to stop any kind of perceived attack, provided an opportunity to demonstrate a change in me. The few questions that I asked? She often didn't seem to know the answer. Like she was torn between what she feels and retaining some sort of hold-back to use when needed. The fact that she seemed to want to rush back to the harmony that we experienced prior to my attempt and the R talk speaks volumes as well.
On we go and patience prevails.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.